There are certain things you should never do for a man in order to
make him happy, these are some of them.
Many ladies in the society have been brainwashed into believing it is
entirely up to them to keep a man at home and make a relationship
work. This is the mentality that is being passed on to the young ladies
who have attained the age of marriage.
Words like love, faith, patience, resilience, commitment, dedication and
prayer are terms you have to deal with as couples. Women are not born
with these qualities or virtues; the strong and reputable women you see
in the environment had to work on themselves. A woman who has all
these qualities is considered to be refined.
For a woman to be able to possess these qualities, that means it is
possible to find men with outstanding qualities too. So why do women
weigh themselves down with the burden of making relationships and
marriages work if the holy matrimony is perceived to be a hypocritical
religious devotion by the men?
This primitive school of thought has subjected lots of women to slavery
in their relationships; they have forced themselves to endure scorn and
hardships while some put up with cheating men who cannot pay their
own bills.
Find below some of the things you should never do to please a man:
1. Never agree to sleep with another man to get him a job or contract
Some women claim to be so much in love with their men to the point
that they would do anything for them. You should never allow a man to
coerce you into doing things that are beneath your standard.
If you are willing to sleep with your boss to get him a job or a contract,
then you are putting yourself on the spot as you have given him a reason
big enough for you to break up.
Apart from him not trusting you, you could suffer a big depression as
you have compromised your standard and this may dwindle your self-
esteem.
2. Do not agree to threesome even if he suggests it:
Men have crazy s*xual fantasies; you should never give in to anything
that would make you get ridiculed at the long run. the only reason why
this may not matter to you is if you are in for the fun of it.
But even at that, your integrity is at stake. Do not agree to let him sleep
with your friend while you are there and do not succumb to sleeping
with him and his friend too.
Your emotion would be on the line and things would get messy at the
long run. Think about this; will a man who wants to marry you be
willing to share you with his friend?
3. Do not give him the history of your life
Now, no one is asking you to be secretive in your relationship. It is
important for you to open up to your partner and discuss issues that
would push your relationship ahead.
While doing this, you should know that your partner doles not need
every detail of your life. Some ladies make this silly mistake of baring
everything as soon as they fall in love. Not every man deserves to know
your history as those things could be used against you.
4. Avoid sending n**e pictures of yourself
Ladies in Nigeria please wake up. It is not okay for you to send naked
pictures of yourself to any man simply because you are trying to bridge
the gap between you both. A man that would cheat would always cheat
no matter what.
Even when you trust your partner and know that your nud3 pictures are
safe with him, have you thought about what could happen if his phone
got stolen?
The pictures could get into the wrong hands and you could become one
of those girls whose nud3 pictures are displayed in social media.
5. Never give up on your dreams
There are so many talented and intelligent women in the society; these
women have loads of potentials stored in them. However, they have
recoiled into their shells because they want to please their partners.
They would give up on their dreams and embrace that of their partners.
It would be difficult living a fulfilled life if you always subject yourself
to the opinions of others.
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